A lot of things or situations happen when a person least expected it and a person may not be able to explain why it happens. It may be bad or good. But no matter what, everything happens for a reason. When it happens a person can never reverse it so why don't just accept it and go on with life. There is no point dwelling on it. Yes, it is good to reflect but not dwelling on it. Sometimes it may seem that the faster a person accept the situation, the faster it may pass. But I always believe, one day when a person look back a person may be happy or grateful that this thing or situation happen. Then, so be it..
This is what I have learnt and realise after so long :D
Haix, my left ear has been hurting me off and on these few days.